A Little Silence

At this time of year in my corner of the planet, parents
and children are readying themselves for a new school year. New routines. New
schedules. Busy busy busy. As life begins to speed up again after vacations
and summer pleasures,
it can be hard to find a minute of peace and quiet.
Yet this is when we need it.
It's not hard. All that's required is a desire to relax
deeply and turn off the world for a little while. No music. No conversation.
All that's needed is a willingness to meet awareness itself - that bright,
deep, quiet place where we really live.
Yet for some reason, there's always an excuse to avoid it.
No time. And then there's the fact that for many of us, doing nothing feels
like a guilty pleasure. We have been so deeply programmed to believe that idle
time is unproductive, or that idle hands lead to mischief, we forget that
those idle moments are the ones that bring new insight, deep rest, and fresh
energy. We forget that silence brings us into the presence of something
greater.
In that bright, deep, quiet place, joy rises. Not the
superficial joy that might come with a Lexus, or an understanding spouse, or a
dog that doesn't pee on the carpet. It goes deeper. It carries us farther. It
nourishes and inspires us. As Jane Goodall says, in "Reason for Hope":
"And now, if I am sad, or filled with sudden rage, I find
some quiet place with grass and leaves and earth, and sit there silently,
and hope that they will come and call me with their silvery voices, and make
me clean again, those little angels of the trees and
flowers."
And, if that's not enough, when we leave that quiet corner,
it spills over into everyday life. Appreciation rises effortlessly for the
things that are in our life - a new feeling of generosity towards that old
beater that carries us to work each day - a new tenderness towards the old
dog, even as you mop up the wet spot. New qualities of respect and acceptance
unfold naturally.
All that, just from a few minutes of silence a day.
(This article was first published in August 2006 in Starry Night)
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